I Don't Have to Make Everything All BetterIn their weekly radio show and in their popular workshops, Gary and Joy Lundberg have already helped thousands of people and their families to communicate more effectively. Now, the Lundbergs address an all too common dilemma that arises when others expect you to solve their problems for them, showing readers how they can shed the no-win role of "fixer" and empower people to solve their own problems through validation--a simple yet profound communication tool that is essential to any healthy relationship. Refreshingly straightforward, this inspiring and entertaining work is poised to become a classic guide for anyone who wishes to improve relationships with their partner, children, colleagues and friends. |
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Contenido
Chapter One Principle 1Be an Effective Validator | |
Chapter Two Principle 2Leave the Responsibility Where It Belongs | |
Chapter Three Principle 3Acknowledge Emotions | |
BEGIN TODAY | |
Chapter Five Principle 5Find the Right Time to Teach | |
Chapter Six Principle 6Learn the Effective Validating Phrases and Questions | |
Chapter Nine How Validation Works with Adult Children | |
GIVE UP GIVING ADVICE | |
BOOMERANG CHILDREN | |
Chapter Ten How Validation Works with a Spouse | |
Chapter Eleven How Validation Works with Parents and ParentsinLaw | |
Chapter Twelve How Validation Works with Divorced and Blended Families | |
Chapter Thirteen How Validation Works with Friends | |
Chapter Fourteen How Validation Works on the | |
Chapter Seven How Validation Works with Young Children | |
Chapter Eight How Validation Works with Teenagers | |
Conclusion | |
Otras ediciones - Ver todas
I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better Gary B. Lundberg,Joy Lundberg,Joy Saunders Lundberg Vista previa limitada - 2000 |
I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better Gary B. Lundberg,Joy Saunders Lundberg Vista de fragmentos - 1995 |
I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better: Six Practical Principles to ... Gary B. Lundberg,Joy Saunders Lundberg Sin vista previa disponible - 1995 |
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